Hiya, i'm new to this forum, but i'm on a quest. I'm in search of the best songs to fool around to/get down and dirty to/or make sweet sweet love too. I've already compiled a desent list but i know there's gotta be more out there, so i've turned to you guys...tell me what some of your favs are. And i'll share some of mine.

superman by eminem will want to make u get down and dirty, also, "i want to lick you to your head to your toe" would be good rap songs to get dirty on

well im not a big fan of it but "Dirty" by Christina Agulera might be good

Ok, i thought i would also give some help...here are some of the songs i have found and well um liked *blushes*
Pony~Ginuine (there's just something about this song)
What's Your Fantasy?~Ludacris (how can that not get the ball rolling? not to mention some great ideas )
Sexual Healing~Al Green (nothing wrong w/ some old stuff)
Let's Get it On~Marvin Gaye (need i say anything?)
On top of me~Tyrese (hehe must say, a guilty pleasure)
Bump N' Grind remix~R. Kelly (just can't think about his rep lol)
Snake~R. Kelly
Unchained Melody~Rightous Brothers (i know it's not rap or anything, but it's beautiful for that sweet sweet love making night)
At Last~Etta James (another beautiful old song)
Freak Me~Silk (sexay)
Freaking You~Jodeci
I'll Make Love to you~Boys II Men (the music is kinda cheesey, but the vocals are great)
Nice and Slow~Usher
Get it on tonight~Montell Jordan (except it's about cheating...)
My love is like wo~Mya (makes me feel a lil more in control)
On My Way~Ginuine

Whew, that was a lot...but there has to be more right? thanx for the help

ok, come on peoples....i'm finding most of the songs here....i just wanna know what you guys think, comment on my choices...something. BTW, i thought of 2 more songs
Rock the Boat~Aaliyah (R.I.P. 2 yrs. today)
Suga Suga~Baby Beesh ft. Frankie J.

never understood the concept of making love to songs. it's like having another person in bed with you. I'd rather hear my partner's groans, moans etc.

Dude....are you THAT insecure w/ yourself? You state that as if you're scared your partner might be paying more attention to the music than to you. Music helps set the mood, get's ppl a lil steamier sometimes, and hell it sets a good beat to grind to... The point might be to even get the moans and groans of you and your partner to drown out the music. Try it sometime...you might find it more intense if you use the music as a tool.

sry but superman and "i wanna lick you from your head to your toe, is all i can think of

Purplednlly,
you call it insecurity? maybe. I think it is more about concentaration problems.
when, for example, one of them emcees throws directions at me - I tend to do it instinctively.
Now, imagine me in the middle of business suddenly throwing my hands in the air, or starting to jump around, or shouting some crazy shit...
Nah...

I'm sorry that you have sexual A.D.D. and that your partner can't do it right enough for you to stay consentrated on them, but anyway, back to the original intent of this post.....the songs.
How about:
Touch It~Monifah
Tell me what you guys think, i'm interested in feedback