Yeah I understand what you are saying now, it's just the way you come across as if you don't agree and are wanting to have an argument instead of a conversation. I'm glad you posted this.

I apologize if I wasn't clear...I think that it's a really good question in general, and so I want to explore it in its entirety. I certainly don't know the answer, that's why I made the thread. A lot of the thoughts that people share are ones that have at least occured to me while thinking about the subject, and I'm hoping for new perspectives, cause I know I haven't thought of everything.